My lessons learned

Friends, the time has come for my reflections on this whole 30-for-30 challenge. Let me start by saying THANK YOU! You all are so sweet for reading along and supporting me throughout this whole project. Many of you have already heard some of my thoughts on this style blog endeavor in person, but I’m excited to share some of them with you in writing here.

I’ve also put together a collection of all my outfits so you can see them at once, and if you’re interested, you can go back and view my original post with all the 30 items. (The post also explains the purpose of the challenge, if you’re new to this blog and the style blogging world).

I suppose throughout this whole endeavor, what I’ve struggled with the most is WHY take one multiple pictures of myself every day and post them for the world to see. What’s the point? Am I being shallow? Is it just fun? Is there a deeper purpose to it?

So the biggest takeway I’ve learned is: #1. BE AUTHENTIC. Be authentic to my body, and to who I am. All of us, whether or not we take pictures and post them to the interwebs, get dressed for an audience and make a statement with what we wear. Our appearance is fundamental to human interaction. So in a way, creating a blog for myself is a way to be mindful of how I’m appearing to colleagues, friends, and strangers. Am I projecting the message I want to? What IS the message I want to project? Being clear with myself about who I am and how I want to look is the first step toward creating an authentic style.

Also, turns out that I am authentically a person who loves fashion blogs. So I’ll do what I do, and I’m ready to accept this fact about myself, shallow or not. I don’t need to not have a fashion blog, in order to prove to myself that I’m smart.

Most authentic outfits: #16, #11.

#2. Be intentional. The second most important lesson I learned over these 30 days is that I can do a lot with a little. As the month wore on, I discovered I liked (and disliked) certain pieces more than others, and it became a challenge to figure out how to wear the less-than-favorite pieces. Playing with those items and mixing them up in ways that would have never occurred to me before breathed new life into my wardrobe.

I’ve also learned since ending the 30 day challenge that I’ve liked the outfits from my reduced closet BETTER than when I’ve had access to my entire wardrobe. Dude, I get L-A-Z-Y! So, being mindful and intentional about what I’m wearing and how I’m wearing it not only yields better results, but I feel better wearing those outfits.

Outfits where I was most intentional: #30 and #6

#3 Take risks. For better or worse, we learn by taking risks. Whether I was happy with the results or not, I was able to learn from my risks and bring that knowledge with me into future outfits. Accessories and styling are awesome–I love how outfits 10 & 29, and 13 & 27, are so different from each other, even thought the base dress is the same. Were I to wear either dress simply, with little or no styling, it would look completely different all over again. I learned the most from having to re-work the dresses in my closet over the 30 days.

#4. Clear out the closet. Or: be selectively sentimental, and always seasonal.

Maybe you all remember my struggles with that damn black skirt, or those awful pink pants? Throughout the challenge, those were the two items I questioned the most. Still, one of the most pragmatic parts of having this blog was being able to toy around with each of those items and see, through an actual real lens, whether or not it was authentic and flattering. In the case of the skirt, I found some ways to make it work (outfits #14 and #30) but with the pink pants, outfit #26 clinched it. I hate those pants. They have now moved on to a better home.

#5. Be appropriate. I get a little jealous sometimes when I read the style blogs of either a) professional bloggers, b) students, or c) people who don’t live in the Midwest, because most have more latitude to wear stuff that I just can’t in my daily life. I do have a lot of room to be experimental, but there are lines that I just cannot cross in order to maintain a sense of professionalism. So one of my lessons learned from this challenge was that I can be creative while still maintaining appropriate workplace attire. And that’s pretty great.

So, what I would do differently? Well, this rule applies to almost everything else in my life, which is PLAN AHEAD. You might as well call my house Procrastination Station (hehe!) because I LOVE to procrastinate. Mandi, during this challenge, had a whole long list of something like 50 potential outfits she could wear! I, on the other hand, woke up every morning and stared blearily at what in my 30 items was still clean. Which leads me to: given another chance I would (maybe?) do LAUNDRY a lot more often. Outfit #26? Yeah, that happened–in addition to wanting to play with color–because the pants and top were two of three items in my closet that were even clean at all. Oops.

So thanks for playing, friends! I already have some other post-30 outfits to share in the next few days, so I’ll keep posting on and off!

Finally, as for my favorite outfits? Click through to find out…

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it begins

so here are the guidelines of the 30 days in 30 ways challenge (originally articulated by Kendi):
  • thirty articles of clothing, including shoes (each pair counts as one article),
  • thirty outfits made with selected clothing,
  • to be completed in thirty days.

PURPOSE: to learn that what i have is enough (damn you, consumerism!), AND to learn how to style and accessorize more creatively.

during these next thirty days, i will not allow myself to shop for clothing, or to wear other clothes in my closet (exceptions: pj’s, workout clothes, undergarments. you don’t want to see those anyway!). now to the business! here is what i will be remixing for the next thirty days:

Seven tops,

Two cardis and one blazer,Four button-ups,

Two pants, one pair of shorts,

Three skirts,

Five dresses,
Five pairs of shoes, and of course, one cat!